Feminism puts on a gold platform that we have subtle control over the men, but haven’t we focused majorly on being wives and mothers and equal partners with men than on just being a woman-which is the core foundation of what a man needs.

The man(Adam) could not call an animal his partner because he saw more than companionship in her.

Can we just use our vulnerability as a strong point?

We are more than roles: Wife, Banker, Manager, Blogger, Singer
We are more than status: Single, Married, Divorced…

Respect is one thing we still have to work on….. and this far different from being melancholic or phlegmatic. It’s a decision to honor people, regardless of their words and actions I will treat them like humans (in need of love).

Clap backs and being bitchy is not sexy at all. The boys on the street won’t see you as a human, even as a person. First glance they see a thing they can devour, but in defense we shout at them, insult them, curse them and “give them”.

But if we see them as humans who need love, then we can turn down proposals nicely.

Develop the Mother side of you first.
Learn how to care for things and people too. Pray for the boys that see you as sexy, reply nicely and calmly- they’ll see wisdom in you.

Get other matured friends involved when it gets threatening and never forget what happens when you speak a word in Jesus name.

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